There are many different ways to deal with and heal from a divorce. Going through a separation is a challenging time for the entire family. Your emotions will hit highs and lows. The practicality of separating assets and other belongings gets messy. Things like establishing child custody rights can be hard between the parents, but even harder on the children. Child custody determines the schedule the children will have with each parent, but once all is settled from the divorce, one of the best ways to de-stress is to get away and go on a vacation.